My Perspective About Love

Disclaimer : I know my grammar is bad. But, I write in English cause I wont make my family know about what I said (Incase they find this blog )

I want to make this blog to be a place where I can share about what’s on my mind, perspective, and many more (as my online diary). Also, I can share about my review here :D

Here’s my perspective about love :

Ah before that, my love languages are quality time, touch, and word of affirmation. 

When I grow up as teenager, I rarely get that ‘love’ and kind of things. Of course, it’s build me to be an apathetic person. Careless about some condition and what’s other feels when i mocked at them. What I cared is always about me, me, and me.

As I get older, many lessons taught me to be a better person. I want to learn how to encouraging and loving others. I still learn it until now. 

I also realize that many kids lack of affection from their parents. 

Some of parents thought by having a lots of money, they can make their life and the child feels happy. Of course people need money to pay the bill and buy the needs. But, they forgot about how important to show affection.

I have an experience with my boyfie. We don’t know how to showing our love to each other. We only know that we feel pleasant when we’re together. Like what I said before, I was really careless, I never ask about “how’s ur day?” or “have you eaten lunch?”. And he used to reply my chat for one day or a week :) . I felt sad because I thought he didn’t care about me. And he felt the same way.

We need more than two years to fix our relationship. We try to communicate what’s we feels, what’s we like, and everything. Until now, we often debate on something. It’s okay, it’s a part of communication.

 I think the old tradition made some people feels really hard to swallow their pride to appreciate and praise others. It’s seems really difficult to say “I love you” and that kind of words. 

Some people only showed their encouragement when someone needs help or only in a special day. But I think it’s should be happen in daily basis too. 

We can try by appreciate ourself first. Go to the bathroom in the morning, and look at the mirror. Tell yourself how pretty and how grateful u’re.

When our beloved person or friend does something good, we can appreciate them. When you love someone, u can tell them. Maybe it will looks cringe at the first time. But trust me, it’s okay to show your love. It wont bring down your pride. And you will feel comfortable day by day. 

I saw Vinna Gracia’s Insta story a month ago. Her daddy said love is meaningless when we cannot show or felt the love. I agree with her dad. We should show it and proud of it. 

Soon, I want to share something that related with this topic. That’s all about my own perspective, how’s about yours? Please let me know ;)